1. Jack's current mental age is 19 while Jess' mental and actual age is 26.
This must mean he acts in a much more immature way than Jess and probably has a much more immature mind. Therefore, he must be struggling with the idea of having to be more grown up especially with the children.
He will also probably find it difficult to get his head around the fact he isn't out partying all the time.
Lastly, Jess is going to be in a different frame of mind as to when she was 19. Back then she was probably much more careless about everything. However, now she is much more caring and probably a little more sensitive on things too.
2. In Jack's mind he has been with Jess around a year. In reality it has been 7 years.
This must be so difficult for Jess because Jack may not possibly show the same love that she does feel for him. Of course Jack loves Jess but the intensity of that love is probably going to take some more time to reach the same level.
3. Jack has lost his identity.
He doesn't really know who he is and what is expected of him. 19 year old Jack is extremely different to 26 year old Jack and he probably feels very lost.
Especially seeing the house and finding out that he runs the business alongside having a wife and kids. He is probably a bit intimidated by his 26 year old self and feels a lot of pressure. He doesn't feel mentally capable to deal with all of that but feels like it's expected of him.
It is probably also so difficult for Jess because Jack became such a mature, loving man and she is probably scared he might lose some of that and go back to his teen antic ways.
It is probably also so difficult for Jess because Jack became such a mature, loving man and she is probably scared he might lose some of that and go back to his teen antic ways.
4. Jess is having to teach Jack about the last 7 years of his life.
Imagine having to explain to your husband his whole adulthood life. Having to tell him about all the major events in his life and especially one of them being the marriage and another being the children. It would be so difficult and tiring and would probably take over her life while also dealing with the worry that he will never get his memories back.
However, even though these are all issues I actually think they will work things out fine whether or not Jack gets his memories back. I think they are a strong enough couple and won't let something like this break them.
Jack has already shown how much he cares and is willing to learn with the effort he made with the children and also the ring.
So fingers crossed it works out haha because they are my favourite!
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